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If the first half of your year didn't feel like yours-- if you've been overwhelmed, frantically hustling or feeling like you want to pick up your life, move to a different country and change your name—this is your wake up call and permission to recalibrate 2025!



I swear it was just January and I was sitting at my setting goals and dreaming of my year. To be honest, after a few false starts it's finally going and I'm carving some time to do a little check-in (reset). Try answering the questions below.

What am I celebrating — big or small — from the last six months?​
What did I learn about myself — or about life?​
What felt hard, and how did I grow through it?​
What might I want to shift or do differently next season?

A drastic change to your daily routine and style requires you to uphold your own boundaries. Maybe that looks likes more alone time, early mornings or going dark for a bit. 🙈 Me! What is one thing that you can do each day to get focused and move in the direction of you best life well-styled?

I recently had an awakening of how I was self-sabotaging myself. I would pour into other friends projects and needs before tending to my own. When you fail to commit to yourself, you're cheating yourself out of a greater love, wealth, vitality and style.

Ask yourself, who am I becoming and what does she /he wear?

Does your current outfit help you show up or disappear?

The next six months are asking for your alignment, not your ambition. Your honestly and fearlessness. I'm here to walk you through a mid-year recalibration to help you reflect, release, and realign your life and business with a Fall lifestyle retreat in the mix. Who's ready?



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Hot Divorcée Summer: 5 Dating Lessons From a Major Red Flag

Summer equinox is almost here and whether you’re single or a hot divorcée like myself, this summer is about curating a life well styled, vibrating high, sidequest adventures, staying unbothered and looking incredible no matter what this season brings.   But before summer fun fully kicks off, I have a timely dating story I feel compelled […]

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How to Dress Confidently When You Don’t Feel Confident Yet

There was a morning after my ex-husband moved out and I stood in front of my closet full of beautiful things and felt nothing. No desire to get dressed. No recognition. No self. I have been a regular style expert on television. I hosted fashion commentary for MetGala, Grammys and Oscars and I had helped […]

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The uncomfortable truth about the world’s most romanticized style icon, CBK.

Let me say something the fashion internet is absolutely not going to like. There is a very specific kind of white feminine obsession with Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy and it is time we talked about it honestly. After the viral sensation of Ryan Murphy’s “Love Story,” CBK (new nickname) has become a blueprint, a Pinterest board and minimalist personality. […]

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